Project 365: Day 108 Celebrating my Birthday   Leave a comment


They say you only turn each age once. For me, the age is 40. (Eeep!). With amazing and fun friends like mine, my birthday celebration lasted a little longer. Tonight I am celebrating with great food and lots of laughter with some of the best people I know. So thankful for my friends!

Posted April 18, 2014 by erinjackso in Personal Blog, Photo Blog

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Project 365: Day 107   1 comment


Had an adventurous trail run with my kids Thursday night. Here we were taking a short run break to check out a cliff. Love that we exercise together.

Posted April 18, 2014 by erinjackso in Personal Blog, Photo Blog

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Project 365: Day 106 Butterflies and our Faith Journey   Leave a comment


In my kiddo’s first grade classroom, students are learning first-hand about metamorphosis by having cocoons and tadpoles in class. Today I stopped in my daughter’s classroom after lunch to check out the newly revealed butterflies.

This got me thinking – I love how butterflies represent the Christian journey. The life cycle of a butterfly is egg, caterpillar, chrysalis & butterfly. Our life in Christ is similar.

Eggs. We begin our life journey and faith journey as beings that are fragile and in need of nourishment. We can find protection and soul food by reading the Bible, being around other believers, worship and prayer.

Caterpillars. Caterpillars crawl along and continue to grow. As they grow they often shed their skin, just like we need to shed old habits and choices that don’t fit our new life.

Chrysalis. During this time of total transformation, caterpillars separate themselves and change. I feel like I am in the midst of this time of transformation as I mature and continue to grow in my faith.

Butterfly. When a butterfly emerges from its cocoon, it is not being born but it is being reborn. We too are reborn as we emerge into our lives as Christians. It is a beautiful thing to be born anew. We are transformed from our former lives and are something altogether new.

The butterfly is also a perfect symbol for Jesus’s resurrection. At Easter and always, may you be born anew in Christ.


What stage are you in on your faith walk? What about the people you know?
What can you do to help others transform?

Posted April 16, 2014 by erinjackso in Devotional, Personal Blog, Photo Blog

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Project 365: Day 105 There were Beans, Beans, Enough to Feed Marines   Leave a comment


First grade students, including my lovely daughter, performed tonight at Barnes and Noble for a school fundraiser. At events like this I’m never sure which is the better picture – the adorable performers, or the dozens of loving adults crowded around to capture the moment on video:


I got one song recorded, then intentionally watched the performance and enjoyed the cute singing.

Here are the lyrics from tonight’s show:


There were beans, beans, enough to feed Marines in the store, in the store.
There were beans, beans, enough to feed Marines in the corner grocery store.
My eyes are dim, I cannot see.
I have not brought my specs with me.
I have not brought my specs with me.
There were beans, beans, enough to feed Marines in the store, in the store.
There were beans, beans, enough to feed Marines in the corner grocery store.
My eyes are dim, I cannot see.
I have not brought my specs with me.
I have not brought my specs with me.

(Enjoy this here:


On top of spaghetti all covered with cheese, I lost my poor meatball when somebody sneezed.
It rolled off the table and onto the floor. And then my poor meatball rolled out of the door.
It rolled in the garden and under a bush, and then my poor meatball, was nothing but mush.
The mush was as tasty as tasty could be, and early next summer, it grew into a tree.
The tree was all covered with beautiful moss; it grew lovely meatballs and tomato sauce.
So if you eat spaghetti all covered with cheese hold onto your meatballs, and don’t ever sneeze.


Capellini, fettucini, escargot and bok choy
Jambalaya and papaya, teriyaki, bok choy.
Herring, kippers, guacamole, kreplach, crumpets, ravioli, gyros, gumbo, sushi, curry, poi, bok choy.
Tacos, baklava, egg rolls, French fries rumaki, Sally Lunn.
Bratwurst, lasagna, won ton, chow mein, ceviche, crab Rangoon.

Wiener schnitzel, salted pretzels, sauerkraut and bok choy.
Moo goo gai pan, enchilada, sauerbraten, bok choy.

Herring, kippers, guacamole, kreplach, crumpets, ravioli, gyros, gumbo, sushi, curry, poi, bok choy.
Tacos, baklava, egg rolls, French fries rumaki, Sally Lunn.
Bratwurst, lasagna, won ton, chow mein, ceviche, crab Rangoon.

Are you watching life or busy recording a video of it?
What kid songs do you have memorized?

Posted April 15, 2014 by erinjackso in Personal Blog, Photo Blog

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Project 365: Day 104 Lean In   Leave a comment


I had a couple of hours to finish a mixed media art piece today called “Lean In to Your Dreams.” Her message was inspired by this TED talk:
Sheryl Sandberg: Why we have too few women leaders

The message is primarily about the need for more women to be leaders. Our world would be a more joyful place if we each men and women alike followed our dreams.

What is God calling you to do?
What is holding you back?

Posted April 14, 2014 by erinjackso in Personal Blog, Photo Blog, Youthworker Self-Care

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Project 365: Day 103 How Not to be *That* Sports Parent   Leave a comment



We are a sports family.  Between the 3 kids, my husband and myself, we have played soccer, cross country, track, baseball, basketball, football and cheerleading.  As an athlete, a sports mom and also a coach, I spend a lot of time at games and practices, and a lot of time on the sidelines.  Today I even had the special opportunity to watch my niece play in a volleyball tournament in Dallas (my picture of the day.)  What really struck me this weekend were the voices and messages from the parents and fans around me.

For the most part, the parents and other coaches I overhear are supportive and encouraging, but not all of them.  I heard a coach reprimanding his player-son this weekend in a way I would never accept as a way he could coach my child.  I’ve half-joked with other parents that you can always tell who the coach’s kids are because the coach reserves a special tone of voice for yelling at their own kid…although to be fair, usually that same coach’s kid reserves a special tone of voice for talking back to his coach.  Among the fans, there are a handful of parents that say things like “Why did you do that?!” “Are you going to actually play hard this game?” “What were you thinking?!”

I’ve also overheard  plenty of parent-fans openly and loudly criticize the calls of refs, usually just teenagers or volunteers working as a referee for the game.  My brother shared with me that the niece I watched play today has spent time working as a referee, and was really hurt by snide comments fans made about her calls.  My niece is beautiful, smart, talented and an all around lovely young person, so it’s painful to hear about how thoughtless parents/fans could be.

It’s tough to just sit there and hear kids getting berated like that, especially about playing a game.  Sure, it’s tough to watch the kids you love lose a game or play poorly, but that doesn’t mean it is your job to criticize them.  I love sports and I hope that kids grow up loving sports too…but I wonder if how we adults are on the sidelines can kill the joy of sports. I even wonder how many of these vocal critics could play any better if they were on the field. There is a lot to be said for encouragement over criticism.  In fact, I think there are really important lessons here for parents, coaches and youth ministers alike.

To parents and fans:  As an athlete, I can tell you that players know full well when they mess up.  There are plenty of self-critical voices. Critical voices from the crowd or from parents especially do not help.  Here’s an idea on what a parent or fan could say at the end of a bad game or play instead of criticism:

Good: “I am proud of what a good team player you are/of how hard you work.”

Really good: “I loved watching you play!”

Even better, add: “I especially loved when you did [specific play here].”

The message that gets caught here is one of love, no matter what.  Add to this an offer to work on a specific skill in between games, or to somehow spend quality time with the kid, and you’ve got a kid who knows unconditional love.

To the coaches: The best coaches I’ve seen will substitute out a player after a bad play to explain on the sidelines what could be done differently, then put the player back in.  It’s the difference between openly criticizing (ouch!) and patiently redirecting…which may feel like the difference between being scolded/embarrassed versus being taught.  To the parents who are coaches (myself included here), let’s remember to try to treat our own kids like a part of the team – neither giving them special treatment beyond the rest of the team, nor giving them harsher criticism.

To my fellow youth ministers: There are great lessons learned on the playing field for youth ministry.  Our “players,” the members of our youth ministry, need us to come alongside as encouraging voices and coaches, not critics.  They need us to come alongside their lives and not say things like, “what were you thinking??!” “Why did you mess up like that?!” but rather, send messages into their lives that say, “I love watching you grow in your faith!” “I’m proud of who you are becoming.”  “I loved when you did [this specific act of love, grace, mercy].”  When youth mess up, we can quietly pull them aside, coach better behavior and then send them back in.  Correct privately, praise publicly.

What results from this is players (youth) who know unconditional love – that’s what we hope for, right?




How do you handle critical voices?

How can you relate sports and faith?

Who has inspired you as a coach?

How do you encourage others?





Project 365: Day 102 Images from My Birthday Tiara   Leave a comment


At the insistence of my 7 year old daughter, I celebrated my entire 40th birthday while wearing a tiara. Here are a few snapshots of my much celebrated day in a tiara:

While coaching first grade soccer:



While greeting my co-birthday friend Elise (Happy birthday to us!):


While eating Nothing Bundt birthday Cake and opening presents:



While cheering on 5th grade soccer:


While tailgating for FCDallas:



And during the FCDallas vs Seattle game, cheering from the front row:





And so it happened. I am 40. I am so ready for what this next decade of life will bring. I’m healthy, happy, wiser and ready to live life to the fullest. Let’s do this! (Tiara optional.)

Posted April 12, 2014 by erinjackso in Personal Blog, Photo Blog

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Project 365: Day 101 Main Street Art Festival   Leave a comment


April in Fort Worth, Texas, brings the Main Street Art Festival. It’s a fun mix of live music, artist booths, fried food and cowboy attire. Actually, I guess that describes Fort Worth a lot if the year. It is, after all, America’s most country city. (

Yeehaw! I love Texas.



Posted April 11, 2014 by erinjackso in Personal Blog, Photo Blog

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Project 365: Day 100 Wholeness   Leave a comment


I love Whole Foods grocery stores. There isn’t one near my house, so it’s a rare treat. I love walking the aisles surrounded by vibrant colors and aromas of natural, organic, healthy foods, most of which are foreign to me. Chia, flax, collard, gluten-free, vegan super foods with brands like Annie’s and Kathleen’s and Organic Pete’s. It almost feels like shopping in a foreign country’s market.

I’ve been focusing on the word “whole” a lot in my prayer life lately. Having been so broken for the last couple of years has made me appreciate the fullness, the vibrancy of Wholeness. I am so thankful to the God that restores my soul and makes me whole again.

From 1 Thessalonians 5:

“16 Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

19 Do not quench the Spirit. 20 Do not treat prophecies with contempt 21 but test them all; hold on to what is good, 22 reject every kind of evil.

23 May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. 24 The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.”


Do you have certain words that speak to your heart? What are they?

Project 365: Day 99 A Lent/Passover Bible Study on John 13:1-35   Leave a comment


Wednesday night is senior high Bible study night (SBUMCSHBS). Tonight we continued our series on the book of John and Jesus’s last days. Tonight’s lesson was multisensory and went really well, so I thought I would share it with everyone.

Supplies: dish tubs filled with warm water, towels, chairs, hand sanitizer, matzah, kosher grape juice, kosher candy (optional), Kings Hawaiian Sweet Bread loaf (or whatever your church uses typically for communion)

The study begins before anyone enters the room. A sign on the door asks participants to remove their shoes and socks, and to enter and sit quietly.

In silence: One person at a time, leaders guide each person to a chair in front of the water tub. Ceremonially wash and dry each person’s feet. We ended with leaders washing each other’s feet.


Then we welcomed everyone to Bible study and reviewed the stories we have been reading (for us it was Jesus raising Lazarus and Mary anointing Jesus’s feet)

We took turns reading parts of John 13. I’m putting the text here, courtesy of, with some of the discussion questions interjected:

Jesus Washes His Disciples’ Feet

It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.

2 The evening meal was in progress, and the devil had already prompted Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had put all things under his power, and that he had come from God and was returning to God; 4 so he got up from the meal, took off his outer clothing, and wrapped a towel around his waist. 5 After that, he poured water into a basin and began to wash his disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel that was wrapped around him.

This led to discussion about whether or not Jesus was naked under the towel. Did towels look like we think of today? The good news is we are in the habit of visualizing the stories as we read! (Religious scholars and historians feel free to help us out here. I’m just reporting what we talked about.)

6 He came to Simon Peter, who said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?”

7 Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.”

8 “No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.”

Jesus answered, “Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.”

9 “Then, Lord,” Simon Peter replied, “not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!”

10 Jesus answered, “Those who have had a bath need only to wash their feet; their whole body is clean. And you are clean, though not every one of you.” 11 For he knew who was going to betray him, and that was why he said not every one was clean.

12 When he had finished washing their feet, he put on his clothes and returned to his place. “Do you understand what I have done for you?” he asked them. 13 “You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and rightly so, for that is what I am. 14 Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also should wash one another’s feet. 15 I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you. 16 Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. 17 Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

At this point we talked about how it was a common practice of hospitality to provide a basin for washing guests’ feet. The actual washing would be done by a slave, not the host, so Jesus’s act had more meaning. How did it feel to have your feet washed?

Jesus Predicts His Betrayal

18 “I am not referring to all of you; I know those I have chosen. But this is to fulfill this passage of Scripture: ‘He who shared my bread has turned[a] against me.’[b]

19 “I am telling you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe that I am who I am. 20 Very truly I tell you, whoever accepts anyone I send accepts me; and whoever accepts me accepts the one who sent me.”

21 After he had said this, Jesus was troubled in spirit and testified, “Very truly I tell you, one of you is going to betray me.”

At this point I introduced the matzah and explained it’s history in Jewish tradition. We talked about the significance of unleavened bread to God’s saved people. I also taught about what “kosher” food means. We sampled kosher grape juice with a piece of matzah as we read the next section:

22 His disciples stared at one another, at a loss to know which of them he meant. 23 One of them, the disciple whom Jesus loved, was reclining next to him. 24 Simon Peter motioned to this disciple and said, “Ask him which one he means.”

25 Leaning back against Jesus, he asked him, “Lord, who is it?”

26 Jesus answered, “It is the one to whom I will give this piece of bread when I have dipped it in the dish.” Then, dipping the piece of bread, he gave it to Judas, the son of Simon Iscariot. 27 As soon as Judas took the bread, Satan entered into him.

Snap! What just happened? What did it look like when Satan entered Judas?

So Jesus told him, “What you are about to do, do quickly.” 28 But no one at the meal understood why Jesus said this to him. 29 Since Judas had charge of the money, some thought Jesus was telling him to buy what was needed for the festival, or to give something to the poor. 30 As soon as Judas had taken the bread, he went out. And it was night.

Here we tried the sweet bread so everyone could taste the difference between leavened and unleavened bread.

Jesus Predicts Peter’s Denial

31 When he was gone, Jesus said, “Now the Son of Man is glorified and God is glorified in him. 32 If God is glorified in him,[c] God will glorify the Son in himself, and will glorify him at once.

33 “My children, I will be with you only a little longer. You will look for me, and just as I told the Jews, so I tell you now: Where I am going, you cannot come.

34 “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35 By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

The last two verses are our memory verses for next week. Whoever can recite them next week earns a candy prize. To close the lesson we shared our joys and concerns, we prayed, and then everyone got to sample a piece of kosher candy on their way out.

How does it feel to have someone serve you?
When have you served others?
How is your foot washing like baptism?
Which character would you be in this story?
What did you think of the foods?
How do you show love to one another?


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